What does it really mean to be “a man after God’s own heart”? That phrase is often used to describe King David, but David wasn’t perfect. Far from it. He had a messy past, a rocky road to leadership, and plenty of opposition. So why would God call him a man after His own heart? Let’s dig into 2 Samuel and unpack some key lessons from David’s rise to the throne that still apply to us today, especially on a day like Father’s Day. Whether you’re leading a business, a family, or just trying to walk with God, there’s something here for you.
1. He Showed Grace
When Saul died, David didn’t celebrate. He grieved. He honored Saul, the very man who tried to kill him. David called him “mighty,” praised his leadership, and even wrote a song of lament. Instead of using Saul’s death to boost his own image, David protected Saul’s legacy for the sake of the nation.
That’s maturity. That’s grace. That’s the heart of someone who values redemption over revenge.
2. He Prayed First
David didn’t just assume the throne after Saul’s death. He prayed first. “Should I go up?” he asked the Lord (2 Sam. 2:1). And when it came to battle strategies, he didn’t rely on his past experience—he inquired of the Lord each time. Prayer wasn’t David’s last resort; it was his first move. Are you praying first or calling on God like a 911 dispatcher when things go wrong?
3. He Expected Opposition
Even though David was God’s anointed king, it didn’t mean the path would be easy. His reign began with civil war, betrayal, and chaos. But David didn’t let opposition derail his obedience. Sometimes storms come not because we’ve disobeyed, but because we’re on the right path. Jonah ran from God and ended up in a storm. But so did the disciples while following Jesus. Obedience doesn’t exempt you from struggle.
4. He Did What Was Right
David faced injustice and violence, but he consistently chose the high road. When Joab murdered Abner, David publicly condemned it. When opportunists brought him Ish-bosheth’s head, he executed them for their wickedness. David wasn’t perfect, but he led with integrity. He separated himself from evil and chose what was right, even when it was hard. That’s leadership.
5. He Followed God Fully
David waited patiently for God’s timing. He was anointed three times before he fully reigned over Israel. He didn’t rush or force his way into power. He trusted that “promotion comes from the Lord.”
Eventually, David captured Jerusalem, against all odds, and made it the City of David. That earthly city would one day point to a heavenly one. Just like David, Jesus would come through chaos, enter darkness, and establish an eternal Kingdom. David wasn’t chasing his own crown. He followed God’s lead every step of the way. That’s what made him a man after God’s own heart.
What About You?
You don’t have to be perfect to be used by God. You just have to be surrendered. Maybe you’ve been fighting for your own kingdom. Maybe you’ve been doing the right things in the wrong way. Maybe you’re in a storm and wondering why. David’s life shows us that God works through messy people and complicated circumstances. And just like God brought David to the throne, He can bring peace and purpose to your life too.
Let us walk with you. Plan your visit to Liberty Live Church at libertylive.church/visit, or reach out and fill out our Connect Card. We’d love to help you take your next step with Jesus.
There’s still time to become a man or woman after God’s own heart. Let Him write your story.
Works Consulted:
2 Samuel, Phillips
2 Samuel, Mills
2 Samuel, Greear
2 Samuel, Greear
Life of David, Swindoll
